Trueman ([info]rebelcoyote) wrote,
@ 2004-02-16 18:48:00
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The Red Badge Of Poor Timing
Over the last few months, I’ve thought a lot about the wars we’ve fought. Although I’m aware of the significance of the conflict I was involved in I never fired a shot. I didn't do anymore than any of the other guys in my unit and even though I was wounded, my purple heart merely reflects unfortunate timing. People wonder how the traumatic attack and the loss of a close friend will affect me but although it’s been difficult, I can’t help but think about the men who saw a dozen friends fall around them as they stormed a muddy trench in France, or lost both legs to a landmine in the jungles of Vietnam. I’ve been through a lot in the last year but I’ve become acutely aware of the fact that there are tens of thousands of men out there who’ve been through far worse campaigns and lived through incidents as bad, or worse than mine half a dozen times or more.

The next time you think about the war going on today, whatever you may think of it, remember that there’s thousands of soldiers out there who’ve fought, and suffered, and lost more than we know, many of whom came home only to be cursed at and then quietly forgotten. Remember them now and as today’s soldiers return, regardless of how you feel about politicians and foreign policy, just be glad that there are men and women out there willing to serve their country as soldiers. Be grateful because there may come a day when your very way of life is threatened and it will be those people who will answer the call, it will be those soldiers that defend us.




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[info]mizdandylynn
2004-02-16 05:17 pm UTC (link)
My grandfather served in WWI and was wounded... according to my grandmother he was never the same.

My uncle served in WWII and my dad in the Korean conflict.

I honor all who serve.. whether there is active conflict...or not Whether they are wounded or not whether they think they make a difference or not.

Thank you Trueman.. not only for serving.. but for reminding me of important things.

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[info]zakat451
2004-02-16 05:40 pm UTC (link)
Thank you Trueman.

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[info]mandako19
2004-02-16 05:58 pm UTC (link)
my grandpa served during WWII and my uncle during no actual conflict. i am so gratful to all who have served/are serving this country. i dont want to know what life would be like if they didnt fight.

thanks go to you also trueman. its good to hear from you again.

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[info]flemco
2004-02-16 06:03 pm UTC (link)
As much as I dig the fuck out of your journal and think you're a schmoovy dude, I'm not sure I can agree with your sentiment entirely.

My grandfather served in the Pacific in WWDeuce.
I revere his memory. My last roommate served in Gulf I, and I still shower him with free drinks. My younger did his tour in Korea, and my youngest sib is in Kandahar as I type this.

I am grateful for the American soldiers who defend my country and fight, bleed, die, or live in agony for the rest of their lives. To the core, I am grateful.

That's why I am in a blood-boiling rage over this most recent "war". Our soldiers should not be sent willy-nilly to get their legs blown off or their chest ripped apart without good reason. I am grateful to these people, and gratitude goes a fuck of a lot farther than just saying "have a beer on me". It involves responsibility, the choices one should make when voting or protesting. Our soldiers mean more to me than the current administration is using them for.

As you know, a GI does not get to choose his own battles. A soldier does what they're told, when they're told. That is their responsibility.

And it is my responsibility, as a voting civilian, to do everything in my power to make sure they don't get their asses blown off for bullshit reasons. It is also my responsibility as a columnist to make sure that the jackasses in office who misuse their clout are served up to the public raw, with a knife and fork.

Your sentiment has one hell of a good point, chum, but you should note that any sense of gratitude should not result in blind support by the populace for a bullshit war.

Come down to Dallas and have a beer, dude.

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[info]roninspoon
2004-02-16 09:37 pm UTC (link)
That's our job though. We do what we're told and we go where we're needed. Every soldier knows that. A few don't particularly like to think about it, but they realize it deep down. We aren't in it for the gratitude, the drinks or any other compensation. Most of us do it because we have to, we need to, because we believe it must be done. Since I returned from the Gulf War a couple of people have thanked me for my service. That was nice, made me feel kinda good. But I didn't do what I did to be congratulated. I did it because I believe it must be done. Someone has to protect this country of ingrates from itself.

I don't think the dude's asking you to condone the war, but to condone the soldier.

Incidentally, to date, the small number of people who have thanked me, were either veterans themselves or spouses of veterans. I'm not sure is that's relevant, but it struck me as interesting.

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[info]graf_garcia
2004-02-17 04:42 am UTC (link)
+++I don't think the dude's asking you to condone the war, but to condone the soldier+++

absolutely. as long as the army is based on volunteering recruits rather than on the draft (and all wars this army has fought over last 49 years were fought on foreign soil against enemies who never attempted to attack the U.S.), the soldier shares full responsibility for everything the army does. to condone the soldier IS to condone the war. And vice versa.
People who put stickers ``we support our troops'' on their car bumpers are condoning soldiers AND wars, not ``soldiers rather than wars''. Don't be surprised when you get smacked by a rotten tomato in Amsterdam or when a girl you try to chat up in a Milano bus gets up and changes seats, having heard you're a GI and proud of it.

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[info]roninspoon
2004-02-17 08:21 am UTC (link)
There is a very real difference between the soldier and the war. It's unfortunate, but I suspect that people like you will never understand, no matter how much other's try to explain it to you. It is I who pity you.

And just for the record, I'm not one of those veterans who would slump his shoulders and feel shamed if some one attacked me for my service. The rotten tomato tossed at me won't harm me or my pride, but the dude who threw it better have fast legs.

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[info]flemco
2004-02-24 07:12 am UTC (link)
I have separated the soldier and the war hard. I'm a columnist for a political rag as well as a political cartoonist, and with as many military members of my family as I have, I know exactly what a soldier has to do as far as following orders (not that I'd ever lay claim to knowledge of the full military experience personally). I understand what Trueman is trying to say here, and my response was mostly to note one thing:

I am one of those pinko commies who believe that our legal reasons for entering Gulf II were unsound. This will come back to bite us on the ass in the world courts and in generations of politics to come. I have been vocal about this since February of 2002.

Support the troops? Damned skippy. But Trueman's post can easily be misconstrued by the mentally inferior to mean that our soldiers in Iraq right now are defending America. Nail me to a cross if you want, but I don't agree. Our boys and girls over there are getting shot at for a ridiculous vendetta purported by a select few in power. That's not fucking American, and that's not even in the same county as "right".

Yes, I support the troops, but I can damn the war in the same breath, and those who ordered it.

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[info]dormouse_in_tea
2004-02-16 07:02 pm UTC (link)
Amen. Thanks, Trueman.

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[info]mindslide
2004-02-16 07:03 pm UTC (link)
I am. You just affirmed it a little more.

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It's a tribute...
[info]reviresco
2004-02-16 07:48 pm UTC (link)
...to your strength of character that this horrible incident hasn't changed your view of the service into a negative one. Instead, I applaud the fact that you would continue to share your views with such positive, emotional, and first-hand introspection.

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[info]misterpriapus
2004-02-16 07:56 pm UTC (link)
Damn dude, every time I'm feeling fed up and full of righteous indignation over the latest political argument, you post and hit the nail right on the head. Helps me get some perspective.

Thank you for serving, but also thank you for posting.

Chris

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[info]wickedboldt
2004-02-16 08:11 pm UTC (link)
You are the most amazing person.
Thanks for reminding us of the important things.
And as pointless as that other guy might think this war was, it's definitely real.
~Isaiah 32:16-18
It's nice to see you posting again.

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[info]panaphobic
2004-02-16 10:58 pm UTC (link)
My grandfather told me that he fought in WWII to make sure that none of his children or their children ever had to fight in a war again.
That being said, I cherish those who go and fight, and hope that someday I may be able to do a great deed for my country through other means. I don't believe in fighting on other people's say-so (I'd make a terrible soldier), but I do believe that the nation both needs an army and that our army is the best in the world.
I would like to thank you, and to thank other soldiers, for doing what they have to do. I don't agree with the policy that sent them to Iraq, but I do agree with what they're doing now: working hard to rebuild a nation that we destroyed.
Godspeed.
js

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[info]graf_garcia
2004-02-16 11:11 pm UTC (link)
Oh well I don't know much about defending your country but I know that your troops show up uninvited in foreign countries at least twice every three years - either as land troops or as bombers and missiles.
For you, that's defending your country? I ain't American and for me these are pure aggressions.

And, as such, these ``soldiers who defend'' are pure aggressors. Given that there's no draft in your country, all of them are volunteers. I.e. they volunteer to show up uninvited, with arms, at foreign soil, using a pretext to advance their own interests. So they themselves opt to be blown up to pieces, cut in half by Kalashnikov rounds or die in downed jets and choppers.

I feel little pity for them.

They're very different from innocent people who died in terrorist attacks in the U.S. Those people haven't committed any aggressions and haven come to anyone's home with arms. You guys now use their deaths as moral shields to attack other countries which you claim without proof were responsible for the terrorist attacks.

I heard last year the state department commissioned a research on reasons for anti-Americanism in the world. I wonder why they needed to spend money, it's really short and simple: people don't like aggressors, they don't like your yankee-doodle-gong-ho, they don't like your ``american way is the best and you're stupid if you disagree.''

So sometimes you face abuse, sometimes, rotten tomatoes and sometimes, bullets. You'll be facing them as long as it takes you to understand.

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[info]underporch
2004-02-17 06:07 am UTC (link)
Liberal Democracies worldwide:

1790=3
1900=13
1975=30
1990=61 *

When will we realize that this idiotic social experiment pioneered by the United States is simply not going to make it?

(*stats from Fukuyama's The End of History and the Last Man

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[info]graf_garcia
2004-02-17 07:16 am UTC (link)
A pun intended? Not taken. How about stopping pioneering any experiments outside of your own country? Will this idiotic or not social experiment going to make it in Iraq, Argentina, Russia, China or Belgium is up to Iraqis/Argentines/Russians/Chinese/Belgians to decide.

I would love to see an isolationist at the helm of the U.S., rather than a curved-penis do-gooder or a mad-cow warrior. But you guys aren't going to elect one, the country just loves too much to stick its nose into other peoples' beds.

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[info]mme6546
2004-02-17 01:56 pm UTC (link)
you are an ick.
just my opinion....
but one i am legaly entitled to.
one people have died to protect.
your just as entitled to yours, but respect is always nice. after all, if i respected you i would not say "you are an ick". i would most likely ignore you under the "if you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all" rule. sometimes its not what you say but how and where you say it. running down my country on a journal of one who was injured in its service isnt smart. it isnt nice. and it isnt respectful. therefore...

you are an ick.

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[info]graf_garcia
2004-02-18 01:38 pm UTC (link)
why I should respect one wounded in the course of aggression in which he opted to take part and why I should respect the country that sent him there is beyond me.
i'm neither nice or respectful to your crowd. and you can call me whatever you like - at least you aren't bombing me. just yet.

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(Anonymous)
2004-02-20 11:10 am UTC (link)
You have alot of balls to be Russian and saying anything about how evil our foreign policy and especially our soldiers are. Your soldiers commit atrocities in Chechnya that make Saddam and his supporters look like nice guys. At least we're trying to rebuild Iraq. What are your troops doing in Chechnya? Try taking a look in the mirror once in awhile you ignorant piece of sh*t.

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[info]graf_garcia
2004-03-01 10:41 pm UTC (link)
you have a lot of balls to remain anonymous. end of exchange.

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[info]msginnyo
2004-02-16 11:13 pm UTC (link)
This pic is of my Dad when he came home from Korea in 1953.

I counted up all of the vets in my family once; we had at least one male in service for all of the wars & "police actions" in the 1900's. One of my cousins, and two of his nephews, serve currently.

(disclaimer: I thought we had one family member in the Spanish-American war as well, but I am not sure now and would have to research it.)

There's one thing, I think, that all of those men in my family have in common with you: every last one of them was the kid next door, or down the street, or someone's sibling or parent or uncle or cousin or classmate. Every last one of them thought they were no one special, just a guy getting through today who happened to be in the military.

And every last one of them, you included, voluntarily put on a uniform and put their ass on the line. And to me it doesn't matter that you think your injury is the result of "poor timing." You put yourself in a uniform and put yourself on the line for your country.

We all might be the fabric that this country is made of, but you are the stitching that holds it together.

My hat's still off to you, and you get my continued thanks.

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be grateful...
[info]lllvis
2004-02-17 07:29 am UTC (link)
amen.

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[info]paladyn
2004-02-17 08:14 am UTC (link)
Well put sir.

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Thank you
[info]dinda
2004-02-17 09:05 am UTC (link)
There is no such thing as poor timing. You signed up as a volunteer not knowing what the future might bring but you signed up when so many others did not/will not. Being a soldier is not a safe choice. Even if you were here in the states on a "routine training mission" you're very decision to be a soldier put you in harm's way when so many others stay far away, safe in their choices. Thanks for your service.

The detractors enjoy the freedom of your and past soldiers service yet they fail to even acknowledge they only have those rights because of others sacrifices. ::sigh:: I fear them and their "peaceful" ways more than anything. The reality of the world today is that it is not a place where a peaceful person is protected by the goodwill of their beliefs but by the peacekeepers (police/soldiers/others) who take up the challenge of protecting others.

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[info]mooskleo
2004-02-17 10:10 am UTC (link)
Good to see you back dude.

Amen to that. And thoughts to the guys still there.

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[info]mme6546
2004-02-17 01:49 pm UTC (link)
you was missed charlie brown...im glad your posting again. :)

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you are courageous
(Anonymous)
2004-02-18 01:30 pm UTC (link)
I appreciate your thoughts on the horrors many soldiers have experienced, but I wouldn't want to minimize that what you experienced was horrendous, too and you have met the long tedious and often painful process of treatment and healing impressively - you are courageous and I admire you very much. - L.I.

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[info]thepinkdragon
2004-02-24 08:45 pm UTC (link)
Amen to your words Trueman. I am glad to see you are doing better. I'm not sure how you will feel about this or if you have already seen it but there is an article from military.com about Spc. Moss and Spc. Wise. They did not mention your name but I recognized your story and knew the gunner they mentioned was you. Here is the link:

http://www.military.com/NewsContent/0,13319,dod3_022004.00.html?ESRC=army.nl

Take care of yourself and thank you for serving our country, from one vet to another.

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[info]shamrockchic214
2004-02-26 03:30 pm UTC (link)
Hi! I happened upon your LJ while looking through others with 'Civil War reenacting' listed as an interest. I read your post, and I have just one thing to say. Thank You. I just turned 21 as well, and I couldn't imagine going through the things you went through. It is to people like you that I owe my most sincere offerings of gratitude. To know that there are people in this country who are willing to risk their lives to defend a country filled with people they don't know and will most likely never meet is amazing. I hope you have a speedy recovery. God Bless.

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Thanks
(Anonymous)
2006-12-11 03:58 am UTC (link)
I don't agree with the war but thank you for defending my freedom. I love the courage of all soldiers holding it down for regular civilians like myself. Thank you.

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